The Perfect Setting
Settled in the stunning English countryside of historic Silchester on the Hampshire/Berkshire border, Silchester Farm sits tucked away down a tree lined lane in its very own haven of tranquility.
With acres of open land, formal gardens, a myriad of unique buildings and undeniable romance, The Silchester Farm Estate is totally exclusive and everything you could desire for the ultimate rural escape wedding.
Visualise…
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The Cow Shed
Your boujee barn to dine dance, and celebrate.
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Hampshire Threshing Barn
Say ‘I do’ in our 400 year old barn with up to 140 of your loved ones
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Lakeside Ceremony
Tie the knot waterside, basking in the sunshine with views of the weeping willow
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The Old Hen House and Courtyard
Move between The Old Hen House and courtyard for reception drinks and canapés
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The Fields
Acres of open landscape for games, strolls or the ultimate sunset photos
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The Dutch Barn
Authentically rustic and the home of our outdoor kitchen
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The Granary
A charming cottage hideaway nestled atop stone mushrooms.
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The Formal Gardens
A romantic nook for your picture perfect moments
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Kitchen Garden and Terrace
A sun trap terrace and space to wander through our home grown produce
Pricing
Your wedding, your way.
Our Fancy Farm is completely exclusive to you, with flexible pricing options designed to suit a variety of needs and budgets. Whether you're planning an intimate winter celebration or a grand summer affair, we’re here to help you create the perfect day. Explore our pricing details below and let’s begin planning your magical wedding experience.
Looking to do it differently?
Explore the options below for smaller numbers or shorter celebrations
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Looking to host a later ceremony and enjoy a relaxed romantic celebration as the sun sets? Our ‘Twilight Wedding’ and ‘Twilight Reception’ options, allow you to enjoy everything we have to offer - with our venue transforming as evening falls. Click here to discover more
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If you’re dreaming of a wedding that feels personal, elegant, and deeply meaningful, Silchester Farm offers the perfect setting. For up to 50 guests, enjoy an exquisite, candlelit dinner where delicious food, great wine, and heartfelt conversations take centre stage. Click here to discover more
The other important elements
Food & Drink
Enjoy a laid back, luxurious celebration of British countryside dining at Silchester Farm.
From formal dining and sharing spreads to open fire alfresco feasts, our in-house chefs know how to wow your guests.
As for the bar – well its over 7m long and serves all of our very own, award winning, ‘Wingless Eagle’ spirits, local beer - ice cold on tap, an outstanding wine selection, and a few things you may have never seen before.
Our Suppliers
Planning your wedding should feel exciting, not overwhelming, and we’re here to make sure of it. If you’re not sure where to begin, we’ve curated a collection of trusted “Friends of Silchester Farm” who know our barns, our spaces, and the flow of the day inside out.
From florists and décor to photographers, stylists, evening entertainment and more, these talented suppliers add the perfect finishing touches to your celebration. Browse through our recommended suppliers and feel confident that you’re in safe, experienced hands every step of the way.
Stays
A stunning collection of on-site luxury lodgings for up to 47 guests, including the wedding couple, to stay the night or maybe two.
Our traditional Farmhouse sleeps 15, in 7 bedrooms, whilst the Barn House sleeps 12, in 6 bedrooms. In addition, our collection of Luxury Pyggies accommodate an additional 18 guests, in 9 guest suites across 6 handmade pods which have been carefully designed and built in Hampshire. Pyggy Thyme is our luxury honeymoon suite for the couple. Our final and most unique space, the original Granary, offers a tranquil space for 2.
See it for yourself…
We can’t wait to welcome you for a show round at Silchester Farm. In the meantime, take a look at our virtual tour.
Gallery
Wedding Reviews
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“Firstly thank you so so much to everyone involved at Silchester for making our day so unbelievably special.
We had so so many comments on how beyond stunning the venue is, how fabulous the food was and how amazing the team and staff at Silchester were on the day.
Soph, you are an absolute asset to Silchester, you made our day beyond wonderful, and we have had so many lovely comments about your hard work and organisation from our family and friends. Any future couples at Silchester will be very very lucky people to have you running their day - you are a superstar!!!”
~ Lydia & Oliver
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“We are so incredibly thankful we chose Silchester Farm as our wedding venue. From start to finish, the entire day was everything we dreamed of and more. Sophie, Amie, and the whole team went above and beyond to make sure everything ran smoothly. They were always there when we needed anything, and their support made all the difference.
The staff serving food and drinks were outstanding - so professional, friendly, and attentive. We had so many guests comment on how brilliant they were.
We truly wish we could relive it all again. Silchester Farm gave us the perfect day, and we’ll be forever grateful.”
~ Emily & Matt
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“We booked Silchester Farm for our 3 day wedding in July this year and they were fantastic. The venue was an easy choice for it’s stunning grounds (which provided lots of different photo opportunities), beautifully decorated accommodation (the mix of individual rooms or ‘pyggies’ and shared houses gave us lots of different options and spaces to socialise) and delicious food and drink. But even more than that, we received excellent service.
We had a truly fantastic set of days and we can’t thank the team at Silchester Farm enough for all of their hard work and for giving us so many happy memories to look back on.”
~ Sarah & Huw
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“We had the most incredible wedding day at Silchester Farm, and we honestly couldn’t have chosen a better venue. From the moment we arrived, we knew it was special – the grounds are stunning, the barns are full of character, and every detail has been thought through to create a truly magical atmosphere.
If you’re looking for a wedding venue that combines rustic charm with impeccable service, look no further – Silchester Farm is perfect, and the team are simply outstanding.”
~ Ellie & Jake
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“A massive thank you for everything! Nothing was too much effort for you and you really made planning a wedding a very straightforward process. The day itself was an absolute dream and there wasn’t a single thing I’d have changed. You clearly work extremely hard and long hours so I really hope you get all the recognition you deserve from the management team over at Silchester...
You went above and beyond the best support we could have hoped for. There are a lot of small details to a wedding but you with you running things we where confident that everything was taken care of.
Silchester Farm will always be a special place for us now.”
~ Louisa & Dan
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“We would like to thank you for constantly going above and beyond for us and would like this to be hugely recognised. We honestly couldn't be more grateful for having you with us on such a special day.
Sophie, you were absolutely incredible from the moment you came on board, right up to the morning after, we absolutely adore you and really appreciate all done for us - thank you doesn't even touch the sides in how we feel towards you and what you did for us!”
~ Lauren & Ryan
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“This truly is the most magical venue and our day was just the best.”
~ S & B
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“We had the most amazing day and Silchester was the perfect venue for us. We couldn’t have asked for anything better - thank you so much for all your hard work on the day!”
~ R & A
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“We just wanted to say a huge thank you for all of your hard work and help in making our wedding day so special! We had the most incredible day and we’re very grateful to you and the rest of the Silchester team for ensuring that everything ran so smoothly. So many of our guests complimented the delicious food as well so please pass on our thanks to the chef! We look forward to visiting Silchester farm again very soon! ”
~ L & K
Features…
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Guides For Brides September 2024
Silchester Farm: Rural Escapism for Your Wedding
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Love My Dress June 2024
Silchester Farm & Isle of Wight: A Romantic Two-Day Wedding With Bridal Gowns by Whistles & Berta.
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Rock My Wedding
Rustic Luxe Silchester Farm Wedding - Emily & George
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Rock My Wedding Inspiration
Boho Inspiration With Gold Leaf Crown at Silchester Farm
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Rock My Wedding Winter Wedding
Take a peek into James and Jane’s magical winter wedding.
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Rock My Wedding Autumn Luxe
Take a look at Kate and Nick’s countryside ceremony at Silchester Farm
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10 Unique Wedding Venues in Hampshire
Silchester Farm is not just one of the best venues in Hampshire, it’s frankly one of the best in the country.
A day to remember
Take a look at Molly & Rory’s day to get a better understanding of what Silchester Farm can offer.
Videographer: James Taylor Films
Wedding FAQS
How do I book my wedding at Silchester Farm?
Once we’ve welcomed you in for a show round & you have chosen a preferred date we will hold this for you for 7 days at no obligation.
Within the 7 days, we will issue you with a booking form, which you will need to fill out, sign & return along with a 50% venue hire and a further £1500.00 in-house catering deposit both of which are required to secure your special day.
What style of ceremony can I have at Silchester Farm?
You can book a registrar from Hampshire County Council website for a civil ceremony. We recommend doing this as soon as you book your wedding date.
We can also have blessings or book a celebrant to conduct your ceremony. All styles of ceremony are welcome at the farm.
What is the best time of day to have my ceremony?
We recommend a ceremony from 1pm, but we are flexible here at Silchester Farm and your day can be designed around you. You will work with our weddings team throughout your planning to create a smooth and personalised running of the day.
What buildings do I have access to with the venue hire?
You have access to Silchester Farm from 10am through till 11:30pm Sunday – Thursday (including all bank holidays) & midnight Friday & Saturday. You will have exclusive use of The Hampshire Threshing Barn, Cow Shed, Outdoor Ceremony Pergola, Dutch Barn and our associated courtyards and gardens. Our Woodshed will open at 9.30 for you to get ahead with your prep and pampering.
What rooms do I use for each part of the day?
We are licensed for ceremonies in all areas of Silchester Farm, so you are welcome to take your pick on where you would like to get married (weather permitting for our outside areas!). For the drinks reception, we recommend either our courtyard for those warm, summer days, or the Hen House for the colder/wetter seasons.
Following your drinks reception, you and your guests will wander through our Kitchen Gardens up to The Cow Shed for the wedding breakfast and celebrations.
We do not host evening receptions in theHampshire Threshing Barn. We have designed the venue so you can enjoy each space at the most suitable time of day, and this allows for a great flow & minimum turn around using all of the farm for your special day.
What else is included in the venue hire?
Lots! To name a few – rustic wooden tables, wooden cross-back chairs, wooden benches, cake stand and knife, a dedicated wedding coordinator, a fully stocked and staffed bar, PA system for background music, microphones for speeches. Adequate parking for your guests.
The Wood Shed (getting ready room) is also included as part of the venue hire.
What accommodation do you have on-site?
We can sleep up to 47 guests staying in the accommodation on site. With a mix of family sharing houses and 10 private suites across the farm. Elements of the accommodation are compulsory as part of your booking. Our traditional Farmhouse sleeps 15, in 7 bedrooms. The Barn House sleeps 12, in 6 bedrooms and in addition to the above accommodation, our collection of Luxury Pyggies accommodate an additional 18 guests, in 9 guest suites across 6 handmade pods which have been carefully designed and built in Hampshire. Each boasts a king size bed, kitchenette and stunning private rural views for all event and wedding guests to wake up to. Our final and most unique space, the original Granary, offers a tranquil space for 2.
The total cost for the accommodation includes a beautifully curated breakfast by our very own head chef, using all the best local suppliers and some extra treats thrown in. This will be freshly delivered to your accommodation the morning after your wedding.
I’m a guest at a wedding, can I book a room at Silchester Farm?
All bookings for on-site accommodation must be made through the wedding couple. We do not take direct bookings for rooms unless they have been allocated to you directly. You can contact stay@silchesterfarm.co.uk for more information and to enquire on availability.
If we are staying at Silchester Farm overnight what time is Check-in/Check-out?
Check in is from 2pm & check out the following day is 10am.
Are we able to get married at a church?
Of course! Our closest Church is St Mary The Virgin, which is just a few minutes from the Farm.
How many guests can I invite to my wedding?
Our maximum capacity is 140 for the ceremony, wedding breakfast and evening party. This includes children as part of this figure.
Is the Barn warm in the winter (and cool in the summer)?
In the Cow Shed we’ve recently installed air-conditioning, which will keep you & your guests cool in the summer through your wedding breakfast & celebrations & keeps it warm & cosy in the winter months. Throughout the rest of the buildings we have underfloor heating, The Hampshire Threshing Barn is naturally cool in the summer.
Is Silchester Farm accessible for disabled visitors?
We have made every effort to ensure disabled visitors can enjoy as much of the estate as possible. However please note we are a farm, with open spaces and pathways made up of different terrain. We do strongly recommend that disabled visitors are accompanied by a companion to assist them. Please note that routes around the farm have gravel paths requiring extra care. We have ramps in all of our main areas and located around the gardens.
Do you have any disabled facilities?
Reducing the walk from the car park, disabled guests may be dropped off right outside the Hampshire Threshing Barn or Cow Shed. We do have ramps to cover any steps and the Cow Shed has its own flat entrance at the back to avoid any steps. We have disabled toilets in both the Hampshire Threshing Barn & Cow Shed.
How should my guests access Silchester Farm?
Try to avoid using our postcode in your Sat-Nav, it takes you in into the village instead of our gates. The best way to find us is by putting ‘Silchester Farm’ into your Sat-Nav.
Can we pick our own suppliers?
Other than the caterers and evening entertainment, of course. We have a great selection of recommended suppliers who we work closely with if you are struggling with where to start.
Can we have catering from an external company?
All our Catering is supplied in house by Silchester Farm, beautifully curated with local, if not home grown produce.
How does food and drink work at Silchester Farm?
All our food and drink collections are supplied by our team in house. You can contact our weddings team on weddings@silchesterfarm.co.uk for information on new menus at anytime through your planning.
Do I get a menu tasting opportunity before my Wedding?
Yes we offer two types of Tasting Events - a Booked Couples Event trying different courses and pairing drinks (approx £200 a couple) or a Private Dining Experience, where you get to choose different courses and drinks, in an intimate setting with your Event Manager and Chefs (approx £350 a couple). Alternatively lots of our couples choose to come to our open public events, with our restaurant open as often as possible throughout the year. You will find details on our upcoming dining events, and be able to book on our What’s On page.
Will the bar be open before my ceremony?
Yes, depending on your ceremony time, the bar will be open for a short period ahead of your ceremony. We do have to be mindful of consumption ahead of a ceremony, due to the legal nature of a marriage ceremony food & drinks are not permitted in the ceremony room, but we can also provide a pre-drinks collection for your guests if this is something you would like to include.
Is tea & Coffee included in my Wedding Breakfast?
Yes, tea & coffee will be served after your Wedding breakfast for your guests to help themselves.
When do I have to decide if I’m having an indoor/outdoor ceremony?
You can choose from an indoor ceremony inside the 400-year-old Hampshire Threshing Barn under the twinkling lights, or get married in our outdoor ceremony space next to our beautiful lake, with views of the willow tree. The best part? You don’t have to decide between indoor or outdoor until the day itself by 9:30am, so you can plan around the weather.
Are all the festoons & fairy lights included in the venue hire?
All the festoon lighting on the outside of the buildings are turned on at the appropriate times. The fairy light ceiling installations in The Hen House, Hampshire Threshing Barn, and Cow Shed can be booked & paid for separately through our trusted partner Farnham Sound & Light. The fairy lights wrapped around the beams in the Hen House & Hampshire Threshing Barn are part of the fixtures and fitting of the farm.
Can we have amplified music outside?
We can have acoustic music outdoors and through your drinks reception. This suits the setting and works perfectly in this environment. Our trusted suppliers can provide details on what has worked and been popular in the past, giving you confidence that your entertainment will be enjoyed by all.
Can we have confetti?
We are very happy for natural dried flower petals to be thrown in the garden.
Can we have sparklers or fireworks?
Due to the nature of the farm and the animals we have onsite, we no longer permit fireworks or sparklers. We do, however, allow smoke bombs outside in specific areas which offer a perfect alternative and stunning photos.
Are we allowed outdoor games?
Yes, we have a number of options for outdoor games within our recommended suppliers list, so if you are looking for something in particular please do let the team know as they will be able to assist with what is suitable and where to locate it on the day for you.
Can my dog attend my wedding?
Yes, your dog is welcome to stay for the ceremony and drinks reception, we simply ask that it has an allocated responsible person to look after it during its visit! We love to see your furry friends and understand it’s important that you get some photos too!
What time can we access the Woodshed prep room?
You will be able to access the Woodshed from 9:30am on the day of the Wedding. The bride, friends or family can start their day here, in a relaxed environment, whilst being pampered for the big day.
Is smoking permitted?
Smoking outside is absolutely fine. We provide plenty of ashtrays in both the Courtyard and Terrace.
If we stay overnight, can guests take drinks back to their accommodation?
Yes you can - all alcoholic drinks must be supplied by Silchester Farm and we ask that no drinks are consumed in bedrooms. We can provide a 'fill the fridge' selection of drinks so you can enjoy a nightcap. Please do let our team know what you would like and we will ensure its ready for you. We kindly ask that noise is kept to a minimum and only guests staying onsite go back to the houses and Pyggies.
Can we use the Swimming pool?
The Swimming pool will not be accessible on your Wedding day itself, however if you are here the night prior you will be able use the pool from your check in time to 8pm.
Can I have breakfast with all my guests the next day?
Of course! This is a lovely opportunity to get together with loved ones after your special day - we can deliver the breakfast to one of the houses and you can catch up over a pastry before checking out at 10am.
Can I leave my car overnight?
Your car can be left in our car park overnight however, it must be collected by 11am the following morning. Please note that vehicles and belongings are left at the owner’s risk.
We do not permit guests to stay overnight in caravans/motorhomes - all guests staying at the farm must be allocated a bedroom within our onsite accommodation.
Do you work with any local hotels?
For any guests not staying on site we recommend the below hotels. There are other local hotels, within a 10 mile radius.
The Wellington Arms - located in Stratfield Turgis with 25 rooms available for block bookings, nice pub feel and food available.
The Hare & Hounds – located in Newbury it provides a comfortable & welcoming home from home with 30 individually designed bedrooms.
Should I take out insurance?
We recommend that every couple take out wedding insurance to protect yourselves and the money you have spent on your big day.
Can I extend the end time of my wedding?
For the comfort of all guests and to respect our surroundings, we’re unable to extend beyond the set end time - but rest assured your day will be full and unforgettable.
Want to find out more?
If you’ve got any more questions regarding Silchester Farm, then don’t hesitate to get in touch or look through our FAQs to see if we’ve answered your query. We’re always happy to talk through your options in person, so feel free to organise a show round with our team.